Over the past 30 years, I have experienced a myriad of reactions from others when speaking of tarot. Some like myself, are so enamored with this form of divination that we have made it a big part of our lives. And yet others are content to let others have at it, no more curious then that. Perhaps my personal favorite reaction is from those individuals who clearly would like to experience a reading, but refrain, afraid of tarot, because it allows me the opportunity to shed new light on the subject.
Essentially, I have summed up the vast majority of those in the latter category into three groups;
Those who believe that tarot is a dark art, black magic or the devil’s work.
Those that have had either the unfortunate experience with either a charlatan, an unprofessional or inexperienced reader or know of someone else who has.
And finally, individuals who are discomforted and even frightened by the images or names of certain cards in the deck, for example, the “Death” card. For the record, this card happens to be one of my favorites and tends to become thus, for those I read as well. More on this card in a bit.
As for the first group it has been my experience that individuals with this belief system for the most part remain obstinate to another perspective on the topic, however, I cannot help but give it a whirl, hoping against hope that a seed has been planted which might someday sprout. As for the second group, I take pride in empathizing with their previous experience. I believe that anyone, albeit an amateur or professional that decides to practice on, or read, has the responsibility to do so with transparency and gentleness. There is absolutely nothing dark or dangerous about the cards, this guilt lies squarely on the reader. As for the unnerving cards in the deck, a responsible reader will de-mystify these cards and break them down to their basics. I enjoy giving tangible examples for clarity.
Take for instance the “Death” card. Only a handful of times in the hundreds of readings I have done, has this card literally referred to someone who was about to or had already passed on and the querant was already prepared for it. For the majority of my clients, those that keep me in the loop between readings and in my own readings, the death card, indicates an ending of one way of life, not an end of life itself, making room for another. Often times, starting a new job, getting married, having a baby, moving half way across the world… all very exciting starts, that begin first with an end or a death, such as the old job, single-hood or life as you know it. The true definition of the cards and the advice given by an considerate reader makes all the difference, even if it so happens that one is living a life full of negativity or difficulty at the time. There is always guidance and hope to be gleaned through a reading with a responsible reader.
Tarot is a means of communication with the other-side, however you call it, speaking with your angels and guides, your higher-self…etc. Knowing this, how could tarot be anything other than a blessing, a gift of guidance and of healing?
Love & Light,
Michelle Rose
I am curious to know if any of you have had not-so-positive tarot reading experiences. Are there certain cards that are uncomfortable for you? Let me know by leaving a comment below.
If you have questions or need direction through a tarot reading, do let me know by booking here. I would be happy to be of assistance.
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